I really should have seen this coming......


Yesterday morning I did my errands on my run. I loaded up the stroller with dry cleaning, and FHE lesson I need laminated, and my stuff for the post office. I had never tried to do this while running before. It was a success! I was at my last stop. The post office.
I was frantically trying to get my stuff shoved into a flat rate box and get it addressed. The kids are screaming, throwing snacks. One of the post office workers came to my aid. He was talking with Nate ("do you know what a stomach looks like? How long are intestines?"- Nate) and then Nate asked the male clerk, for obvious reasons, "Are you going to have a baby?"
I just pretended that I didn't hear and continued writing the address on the box, proceeded to the clerk, and got out of there! Fastforward 8 hours to last night. We love to go to the zoo Wednesday nights. Nate's favorite things at the zoo: rocking out to the live band, the dairy barn (where they have a milk truck he can play in) and the domestic house cat. I am ready to go. We decide to make one last stop at the Bird House. Chris is pointing to a bird in a nest trying to get Nate's attention, but Nate was looking at a woman behind us. He stared at her for a second then said, loudly,
"Is she going to have a baby?"
"Nate, look at this bird!"
"Dad! Is she going to have a baby?"
Without looking, but very aware who Nate was speaking of, Chris answers, "No, Nate. See that bird up there?"
" DAD! That momma right there. Is SHE going to have a baby?"
At that point we just booked in out of the exhibit, humiliated but trying to hold in laughter. I think I have reached the point of no return. It is no longer safe to go in public.

Thank you, Mom!

Last weekend my family was here for the 4th and my mom stayed for an extra week to do projects with me. How lucky am I? Well, the week got to a slow start... we did some shopping at fun places I have spotted since I moved here, but wanted a girlfriend to go with, but we got the one main big project done that I could not do- reupholster my garage sale chair. This summer we went to a couple of garage sales in search for a cheap chair to reupholster. We struck out and then right before calling it quits my mom said, let's try one more. We did and found this cute chair for $15. The fabric was ugly, but the frame was in good shape and the foam was like new. Sold. I bought the fabric from Jo Ann's.... (after moving to Milwaukee I would call my mom every few days and beg her to check and see if my fabric was on sale and when it finally went on sale we bought everything they had- which wasn't enough so I had to track more down).
So she worked like crazy at night and while the boys were napping so that she could play good grandma during the day. She's amazing. I am so lucky to have her has a friend and mom. We had such a good time. One night at 11pm while working on it she said, "Let's quit and watch Confessions of a Shopaholic". So we did! And then just got right back up and worked again the next day. I love you mom! I wish you lived closer. I do love when you come do my projects for me:) and teach me how to do things (I think I will be able to do the next one....) but I really just love spending time with you! Thank you for an amazing, beautiful chair. I just love it and every time I look at it I think of you!

Birthday Boy

Today is Nate's birthday. The last year of his life we have moved 3 times (to Milwaukee, back to Iowa City, and back to Milwaukee), had a baby, got a cat (more on that to come). He too survived all 3 years of law school with me. He's my buddy. He is the one who is helping me get through this move. Last night he hugged me and said, "mom, you're my bestest friend". He immediately went and hugged the cat and said the same thing, but I won't let it phase me. I love this little boy through and through and had loved having him in my life the last 3 years. What a Birth DAY is for a 3 year old:
Wake up to decorations and mom making homemade cinn rolls (ask for recipe- SO GOOD! Thanks Aunt Shelley!!)
Go to the Children's Museum with Gaga (Chris's mom came in town last night to spend the day with us)
Go get lunch at BK so that he could get "a toddler toy"
Nap, yes even BD boys need naps
We were suppose to go to the pool next, but it was too cold so we played with his new super soakers instead. Best water gun for a toddler! You put the gun on this base that fills the water in 15 seconds then you push a button to release it and pull the trigger, not over and over again like some of the water guns that are hard for kids his age to work.

We had planned to go out to dinner, but Nate wanted Spaghettios. Can't argue with the birthday boy! So he did and then we had cake and ice cream. I am finally finding time to blog while Nate is doing "movie night" with Chris.

Thanks for all of your thoughts and prayers, emails, phone calls and text messages the last month. We were a bit overwhelmed with traveling a lot (state soccer tourney, visit Dazi when she returned to the US, Caden's baptism) while trying to unpack, marathon train (SO time consuming!) and get settled and now we are gearing up for all of my family minus Brian (tear) coming here for the 4th of July weekend, then one more trip back to Iowa, the Bar exam and things should slow down.. by then we will be in to August and getting ready for Nate to start preschool. WHERE DID SUMMER GO?! So that is what my deal has been. I am not falling apart, it is just crazy busy around here! Love you guys!

"When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us."

-Helen Keller

I have heard that by last blog post has bummed some people out, even brought some to tears. I want you to know, we survived the move. We miss our friends and family, but Milwaukee is starting to feel like home. So.... I'm back.

We moved.
We are adjusting.
It's hard.

We did it!

Mom

Happy Mother's Day, Mom. You are fabulous!

I love to swing

Really. I do. I love to swing. I can remember swinging on a rope swing at my grandparent's house (that my grandpa made- a flat board drilled with two holes for the ropes to attach). The swinging path was perpendicular to the driveway and I often would swing and my feet would hit our car and I would push off of it. The only people that can probably understand what I am talking about are the few that have done it-my cousins. I would going on dates with Chris and we often ended up at a park or elementary school and would swing and talk. Now that I think about this, I really miss doing this... After we were married, Chris's parents put up a porch swing which is where I am usually found every Sunday afternoon from May- October. My favorite place at my parent's house is their swing under the tree. I love to swing high. Feel the wind in my face on the downswing. Close my eyes on the upswing pull. Enjoy feeling weightless. Carefree.

If my kids got only one thing from me,

I am glad it is my love for swinging.

Guilt

Dear friends,
I know you love me and mean well, but please, please stop giving me delightful goodies like these (homemade Oreos- award winning- by MIL Trudy). I have no willpower. I eat them for breakfast, lunch and dinner until they are gone. NO MORE GOODIES. Okay, maybe one or two, but not a hole Tupperware container full!
Love,
Your marathon-training friend

Happy May Day

Recently I read it a book that May baskets were decorated and made extra special as a sign of affection and delivered secretly to your crush. If your crush caught you delivering the basket, he got to kiss you. This was news to me. Maybe that is why I didn't get my first kiss until I was 16...

I am going to risk jinxing it and declare that Spring is here! While walking to the movie store (we walk there so often Nate thinks ever time we go for a walk we are going to the movie store) I spotted a 3 headed Dandelion. Freak of nature, indeed.














Chris finished law school this week. I told him the night before it felt like Christmas Eve. The next day I picked him up from his last final. When we were walking into the house it feel very much like bringing a new baby home from the hospital- the start of something new, a new beginning. Or, to take a line from Bride Wars, it was like I was dead and graduation was the start of my life. So I guess technically right now I am dead (as we really don't graduate until the 16th). Okay, so I am being a little dramatic but I know you know what I am talking about. We have had fun the last 6 years of marriage, but we have talked so much about what we would do when we are done with school, making plans and dreams- and now we get to start living them! Goodbye, giant R2D2 that is the Iowa Law School. You will probably not be missed.....
Chris and Nate camped out that night to celebrate. Who is this guy? At the end of semesters past, Chris would have played Halo all night with his buddies in celebration. Now he takes his son camping for the first time even though rain is forecasted. What a guy. We are so lucky.
Next adventure is back up to Waterloo/Hudson ( I was there all last week with BRIAN! That needs a whole post dedicated to that) Mike is coming home and the infamous Hudson garage sales are this weekend. I really want to find some accent chair to reupholster for our new apartment.

Happy May Day!

Makeshift Binkie

I'm not sure how it started.


One day I just started noticing a trend.


"Is THAT a BINKIE?!" one very confused and concerned friend asked.


"Oh no, he just does that some times"

Happy Easter

Beautiful weather. 700 eggs filled with goodies. Yummy food. Family.

I am what I am

I am aware of the fact that most of my blogs start with some sort of apology for lack of blogging and a vow to do better... but what can I say. I am an inconsistent blogger. There. I said it. Now you will check this blog with that understanding that most of the time there will not be a new post:)

Moving on. We have been sick, sick, sick. The boys have been, that is. Chris was really sick over Spring Break. Then Nate was sick the next 2 weeks and now Andy woke up this morning with a nasty cough and green runny nose. Please don't get rsv again. Please don't get rsv again.



Latest news:
Andy is full on crawling now. He has been for a few weeks. He LOVES IT! We all love it. Andy is so social that if I walked out of his eye sight he would cry. Now he just follows me or Nate or goes to find something to get in to. His favorites: cords, the blue power button on the desktop computer, knobs. He goes around the house searching for these things. The picture posted above is of And's beloved "tripod" maneuver where he uses 2 legs and one arm to balance himself and the free hand to get a toy. Now that he can sit up by himself, he doesn't do it.



One evening a few weeks ago Chris was giving Nate a bath and I was washing dinner dishes. Chris excitedly told me to get the camera where I saw this: Andy sitting up. Scared me, thinking he would lose his balance and smack his head on that hard floor. But he never did. I guess he waited to sit up by himself until he was completely confident in his balance.

We have not gone out and done anything as I don't want my kids to spread this nasty cold to anyone else. We have had a few visitors though, and are grateful for their bravery so we could have a fun break!

Hallie O'Brien and Nate are 3 days apart
She has been a great friend over the last 2 1/2 years.
Nate loves her mom Heather as much as Hallie!


Kallie Stoddard, daughter of one of Nate's (and my) best friend Kim.
Kallie is a little younger than Nate and he is soooo protective of her. It's kind of annoying... I mean cute... when we are in public with her, he is always making sure she doesn't walk too far away from us or touch anything he thinks is not safe for her. Thanks for coming to play guys!

[Fireman boots only come off at bedtime and typically worn on the wrong foot]

Finally, in closing, Chris just got a call a little more than a week ago letting him know his start date is now not until January 2010 due to the current economic climate. We are still graduating and moving to Milwaukee in May as planned. He is still working for their pro bono clinic and taking the bar this summer. We will then have 5 months to hang out and get to know Milwaukee and enjoy having Chris around! I freaked out at first, but after Chris told me they are advancing his salary I am starting to think this is a blessing in disguise. I will definitely enjoy having Chris around as I adjust to the move and get to know Milwaukee.

Pathetic

It's true. I am a pathetic blogger. I claimed I would start posting weekly... and that didn't even last a week. I am getting back on the wagon. But it is going to take a picture overload to do so.

Milwaukee: We went up north and signed our lease (YAY!) This brought a big sigh of relief to know where we will be living in a few months, a cute little suburb only 10 MINUTES away from downtown! The suburbs up north remind me of the small town I grew up in- no sidewalks or lines on the roads, people just walk along the side of the road and wave to everyone. We were THE ONLY car on the road when we drove around to scope out some neighborhoods! Love it! We will start looking for houses as soon as we get up there and hope to buy this fall. We did this the last weekend in February. Since it is only 4 hours away we went up and back in one day.

After we drove around for a little while we went to our beach from this summer. We have been talking to Nate a lot about the move and we looked at pictures this summer from Milwaukee. Nate said he wanted to go to the beach while in Milwaukee. I knew it would be cold, but I was not expecting this:
Yes, that's ice. It was like a glacier. Chris and Nate went out and walked on it, all the way to the water's edge (yikes!). Chris said it was a couple feet thick. Crazy. I have never seen anything like this. Those little dots are Chris and Nate. And check out the rainbow bridge on the right. CRAZY!! This is the beach of Lake Michigan.

Next we went to The Domes, Milwaukee's botanical garden. They were having a Lego and train exhibit, two favorites of the guys in this family.

It was actually pretty lame. Chris thought it would be fun to come here to get ideas for plants for his writing (he has written 3 short stories this semester and is working on his 1st novel: fantasy/ sci fi) so we were glad we went and plan to visit again, it just wasn't the fun thing we were hoping to do with the kids to give them a break before we drove home.

So we went to Betty Brinn's Children Museum next. I knew this would be a hit because it was a favorite place to go this summer. Nate's favorite: the garage where he could change the oil, tires, put on a new muffler- you name it.

The weather has been yo-yoing. One day this week Nate opened the door and said, "Where'd the warm weather go?" We are trying to take advantage of the warm days we have mixed in here and there.



Andy will be 7 months this week! No, he still doesn't have any hair, but in his 6th month he has started to crawl, gets himself into a sitting position, prefers to sit like a tri-pod with one arm and both legs on the ground and then use the other arm to grab toys, and SAYS DADA. He says it allllll the time! That was both boy's first word. I can't blame him. He is a great dad.

I've been tagged

I will post my much overdue post later this afternoon, but for now - I've been tagged by Abby to:
Open my picture folder
Go to the 6th folder
Select the 6th picture
And write about it.
Here it is:
Nice, right? Shortly after Nate was born Chris went fishing with my grandpa and brother, Ben. A favorite pastime he doesn't do much anymore.... He was pretty proud of this fish and we had to thoroughly document it. Since the foot and fish picture isn't that interesting I will post another picture from that file. Nate was probably a month old, so this would be July-ish 2006. I am pretty sure the fish was bigger than Nate. For all of you locals - I should have sent this in to Channel 9 for "That big ol' fish". I TAG HEATHER O., SARAH R. and CHEREE P.

Thawing out

Last weekend we were up in Waterloo. We went up Friday after Chris's intramural basketball game (he plays with some guys from law school). I think he has played on a team since we have been married. I remember one year he played on a dental school team with Ezra C.... I think he will be sad to have this be his last "season". Anyway, we spent the evening talking it up with a childhood friend of mine and her husband that live up there now. Saturday morning I spent at a baby shower for SIL Erica while Chris and Nate were at Chuck E Cheese and Saturday night was spent at Lauren's 3rd birthday. I forgot my camera. I know, serious sin. So anyone who knows my fam with have to rely on Erica's blog for pictures of these events.


Anyone who has been to the mall with me in the last 6 months knows how disenchanted I have been with my sit and stand stroller. I thought I would love it, hence the reason I bought it, but have not liked it since the first time I used it.

So.... I sold it and bought a new one! Lalalalove it! I bought a Kolcraft Contours tandem stroller. Last summer when I was shopping in the mall in Milwaukee I saw I lady with one of these and her kids were sharing snacks since the seats can be positioned to face each other. My heart melted (okay, I WAS pregnant at the time so the emotional moment might have been a little over the top) and I thought it would be so fun to have a stroller like that.

Then when it was actually time to buy a stroller I was too cheap. Big mistake. I have decided it is worth spending good money on big things like this that I will use all of the time instead of just getting something because it is cheap- but that could just be the tax refund talking.
Anyway, I ordered the stroller last week. Set it up Monday and we took it for a stroll today. Loved it. Andy is still in his infant carrier so he was in that facing Nate instead of in the seat as pictured, but the boys still loved to see each other. Great stroller. Probably the nicest quality I have owned. And I love that there are so many options: seats can face forward, backward, face each other, recline to differnt positions, adjustable foot rest... Soooo glad I did this.



The high has been above 20 pretty much all week. Today we even reached in to the 50's. Chris was able to golf with his dad today. We all went out this afternoon.
I didn't know people could feel this happy. Feel this much love. I know I keep saying that, but it keeps getting better.

Nate got new rain boots (thanks, Gaga!)

I'm so glad.